How to massage your partner


Relax and enjoy

After a long week of hard work, travel and being busy it is very important to have some time to relax and enjoy. One of the best ways to relax is to give your partner a great massage and receive a massage from your partner afterwards. There are many advantages in giving a massage to your partner such as the ability to relax in your own comfortable environment and the opportunities to end the massage just the way you and your partner like. It can also boost the relationship and trigger sexual feelings that might have been ignored for a while. Also it is a cheap, easy and comfortable way to relax, spend quality time together and invest in your relationship.

Learn the needs of the body and mind

There are many reasons to spend some time on giving each other a massage; rather than lay on the couch watching television. It is important to learn what your partner likes in a massage and of course what you like in a treatment. By paying attention to the body and directions of your partner you can learn this quite fast. Besides that the preparation is very important to give a great massage. It is key to decide beforehand what your main focus will be, that way you can create the vibe and atmosphere that is needed as well as creating the opportunity to lead your partner towards the state you decided on. Trying to get your partner relaxed needs a different approach then when you want your partner to get aroused. Music, scented candles, essential oils and massage techniques can help accomplish the best massage treatment possible in the privacy of your own home.

Prepare a massage

To really pamper your partner after a busy week you can surprise him/her with a nice relaxing massage in the comfort of your own bedroom. When you decide on giving a relaxing massage there are many tools that can help. Firstly it is very helpful to search for a simple step by step manual on the kind of massage you are willing to give to see if there are any tips and tricks you don’t know about yet. By using candles and music you can create a nice atmosphere in the bedroom. Make sure the temperature is okay and have towels near you to cover up after or during the massage. Use massage oil which is of good quality and smells nice, scents can set the tone easily.
When choosing for a more sensual or sexual massage it is important to make sure the atmosphere is comfortable, relaxed and private. Make sure that when using candles you are not able to knock them over and you can consider massage oil that can also be used as a lubricant also. You can search for some tips and tricks to tease and seduce your partner during the massage to get him/her aroused and turned on without going too fast or too slow. You can choose to use your body and massage oil only to stroke, kneed, touch and tease your partner. You can also decide to use extra tools to spice it up a bit. You can think of sex toys for example, or you could think of tying your partner up before or during the massage to increase the tension. This all depends on your personal preferences and how you think you can treat and pamper your partner. The most important things to think about are to provide your partner with a safe, comfortable, cozy warm environment where you will not be disturbed during the massage so he/she can completely relax. Try to focus on the needs of your partner to give him/her an unforgettable experience, with perhaps a ‘surprise’ ending.